Developing ourselves
Developing New Skills unfolds from our everyday initiatives to experiment toward the kind of leader we want to be, reflecting on those experiences and fine-tuning the changes.
Our developmental motivation provides us with the capacity for Developing New Skills.
The agility with which leaders can carry out the tasks of developing new skills depends on their developmental motivation. And this capacity comes from the willingness to experiment with being psychologically present and handling greater uncertainty and doubts - also called negative capability. As leaders develop, their motivation evolves from professional self-esteem, leadership ideals (im- ages of the leader one wants to be) and the emotional tone used to assess progress, to wanting to grow as a person, find greater personal meaning in work and in all aspects of life and to lead in ways that serves others.
Awareness of the level of integration of the emotional, intellectual and physical aspects of the self in roles, aids in deepening our developmental motivation.
Managers’ rigidities and vulnerabilities affect those around them and their organisations as a whole. Experimenting with new behaviours thus entails, first, being psychologically present - which is the simultaneous experience of feeling fully there and fully vulnerable during role performances. In a way such that behaviour becomes oriented towards actual others and the task at hand, rather than towards the pulls of internalised others, and of the past. Managing anxiety in a non-defensive way and integrating the emotional, intellectual, and physical aspects of their selves is a key ingredient to being present. This lets others personally engage at work and enhances organisational effectiveness. It also makes it possible for different voices to be heard and contribute to an adaptive debate about the organisation’s identity and future.
Working with the tensions between psychologically present and handling uncertainty, enables us to sustain reflective inaction alongside decisive action.
Experimenting with new behaviours also entails negative capability - the state in which one is capable of being in uncertainties, mysteries, doubts, without any irritable reaching after fact and reason. It complements presence by allowing one to focus on the ability to stand still and create space to interrogate emotions as potential sources of insight, rather than treat them as disturbances. These two together sustain reflective inaction alongside decisive action and have the result of countering the pull to become out of touch with reality.